Real Belonging Discussion Guide
Sean Stewart, director of CBF (Christian Bible Fellowship), shares his personal journey of transformation from operating in 'Sean power' - a controlling, abusive mindset rooted in childhood trauma - to embracing God's larger narrative. He discusses how true discipleship requires moving beyond small personal stories to God's grand narrative as outlined in Ephesians 1, where the church is central to God's plan rather than peripheral. The sermon emphasizes the importance of vulnerability, brokenness, and relying on God's power rather than self-sufficiency in ministry.
Prayer
Heavenly Father, as we gather to discuss your Word and its application to our lives, we ask that You would open our hearts and minds to what You want to teach us. Help us to be vulnerable with one another and to see where we might be living in our own small stories rather than Your grand narrative. Guide our discussion and fellowship. In Jesus' name, Amen.
What's a story or fairy tale from your childhood that has stuck with you into adulthood? Why do you think it made such an impression?
Key Verses
Ephesians 1:17-18
Ephesians 1:22-23
Matthew 5:3
Acts 20:29-30
Question
How would you describe the difference between living in your 'small story' versus God's 'large story'?
What are some ways our culture tries to disciple us through technology and media?
How has suffering or failure in your life helped reshape your understanding of God's story?
What does it mean to be 'poor in spirit' and why is this important for ministry?
How do you think your personal narrative affects the way you view and treat others?
What role does the church play in helping people move from their small stories to God's larger narrative?
How can we better 'see' and value those around us, especially those who might feel marginalized?
What are some practical ways we can examine our narrative lens and align it more with God's story?
Life Application
This week, take time to reflect on your own narrative lens. Identify one area where you might be operating in your 'small story' rather than God's 'large story'. Share this insight with a trusted friend or small group member and ask them to pray with you about aligning more fully with God's narrative.
Key Takeaways
True discipleship requires moving from self-reliance to complete dependence on God's power
Our personal narratives, often formed in childhood, can limit our ability to fully embrace God's story
The church is central, not peripheral, to God's work in the world
Vulnerability and brokenness are essential for authentic ministry and spiritual growth
God's larger story gives meaning and purpose to our suffering and challenges
Prayer
Lord God, thank You for inviting us into Your grand narrative. Help us to release our grip on our small stories and trust in Your larger purpose. Give us the courage to be vulnerable, to embrace our brokenness, and to see others through Your eyes. May we live as Your body, centered in Your story and empowered by Your Spirit. In Jesus' name, Amen.